Sometimes you may have lost your friend but you didn't notice it. The longer you dont the more it hurts. In this week's article i am breaking down 5 stages of losing a friends form personal expiriences. If you had these things happen to you the article will also show the intensity and danger with each stage. So let's begin :D
1.PHSICALLY DISTANT
When you friends moves away out of the nieghborhood or was sent to a different class or you moved, are all phyiscal distances. When you and your freind are away from each other for a long time it can cause a drift emotionally in the heart and physically.
Intensity: slow, low , but watch out
Danger: begining, if you really really like your friend then try to meet up again.
So you see each 9ther again, but you dont know what to say. Your so excited you want to say so many thungs, but you keep your cool, not wanting to blow it. It's very.......awkward. It just feels uncomfortable....
Intensity: heating up
Danger : getting bumpy, SAY SOMETHING GIRL!
3.BIG CHANGES
So you see your friend again. Your happy to see her. But she's not the same. She's changed physically and in the heart. You feel like thier a different person... it's just....hurts
Intensity: it's now or never
Danger: just 2 more stages left, get to know the new bff, and catch up with each other.
So you cant see each other anymore. But you still talk online. But every conversation is so short. Thier only online for 5 minites. And a lot of the time thier not online. It hurts, because you feel you losing a friend, but you dont give up.
Intensity: last chance
Danger: very high thiers nothing you can do to make them come online
5. NO MORE CONTACT
So your friends never online now. Your not in touch anymore. This is the end of your friendship.
Intensity: The end
Danger: no more hope
Thanks fro reading this article. If any of this happens to you, try to avoid, thaky you very much once again, see you next week.
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